To the hard-working women, I know it’s hard. It’s hard having to constantly play multiple roles and one of them being the role of having to constantly hold everything together. There are so many different roles that we have to play in our lives. There’s that constant pressure to ensure that everything works out as it should. The constant pressure to make sure that our loved ones are more than okay. The constant pressure to ensure that we are spiritually healthy, taken care of and doing our best to uphold the spiritually weak too. The everyday responsibilities that we have to attend to feels almost endless. We love our jobs. We do it all because we want to, not because we have to.
Although we appear to be like Wonder Woman and SuperGirl most of the time, we do have our moments. You know those moments where you feel like you just need a little breathing space? Yeah, that moment. From time to time, we just need some breathing space, where we can just drop the load that is resting on our backs and let our hair loose. Some time to get comfortable, to forget the stress and to release all the emotional and physical strain. This is how we get back to doing what we need to do. There’s nothing wrong with breaking down and crying until you are out of tears. You are human. You have feelings- emotions, and cleaning those windows in your soul is what allows us to do it all tomorrow again.
Face it, females have quite a bit on their plate but listen, there is something I have to touch on so that you’ll realize when this happens to you because I never want you to have to go through more than you have to. We all play such great roles in our lives that hold a lot of responsibility, which is stressful enough, so one thing you shouldn’t have to deal with is your own misconception of your self-worth. Yes, your value. It is so easy to become sidetracked and the enemy has such great ways of distorting your thoughts and understanding. That is why I am here to remind each and every one of you about your worth.
As busy as we are, we do get involved in many other different things and sometimes, some of these things make us question our worth. There are things that make us believe that we aren’t good enough. That what we are isn’t perfect enough. That who we are isn’t perfect enough. This is happening to so many of us on a daily basis and it has become such a reality that it is alienating when people embrace loving themselves. I’ve been there too and I still visit that place now and again. I believe that’s what makes you human, but it doesn’t mean that you have to live there. It’s so easy to allow others to put a limit to our worth. It’s so easy to get into a relationship with that guy that makes you feel so amazing and so great and so wonderful, and it’s even easier to start living off the words he uses to limit your worth. No man will ever have the authority or power to capture your infinite worth with his box-sized words. Don’t ever let a man make you feel like you aren’t worthy of being praised for the woman that you are. Don’t ever allow him to make you feel limited.
Remember what I said earlier about you feeling that who and what you are isn’t perfect? In the book of Genesis 1:27 it states:
In the book of Genesis 1:27 it states:
“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”
And in the book of PSALM 139:13-16 it states:
“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.”
Now I don’t know about you but you sound pretty perfect to me. Turn from your ways of finding your worth in others. Forget finding your happiness in others. Find your happiness in God. Ask God yourself and let HIM, a real Man, tell you how worthy, “precious as rubies” and “wonderful” you are. The time has come for this change. You carry so much every single day, you do not deserve to worry about your worth too. Give yourself what you deserve and what you deserve is real love from the Creator of Love Himself. We can all do this together.
We can all do this together.
Lots of love xx